Sunday, October 24, 2010

Men and Women are Different

Men and women are different, the only one is common in between them is they belongs to the same species. They think differently. They believe different things. So they both live in different world, with different values and different set of rules.

Over million of years men's and women's brain structure is continued to change their bodies and also their minds. So not only they communicate differently but they think, feel, perceive, react, respond, love, need and appreciate differently.

If John Gray the author of " Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" says in his books "men and women are living in different plant, speaking different languages and needing different nourishment", is true.

If someone question " why man and women are different?", we can answer this complex question in many way. We can start the difference in biological difference, parental influence, education, the media, the history, and birth order to cultural conditioning by society. 

If scientists, doctor, psychologist and sociologist all say that men and women are not same, they are different. Then why government and other social organisation opinion men and women are equal? The answer is simple men and women are equal in political and moral issues but the difference is a scientific one. It means men and women must have equal opportunity to pursue their career path in any field they choose and got the equal opportunity for same effort.

At first we understand what is difference between difference and equality. Difference means men or women, we may not want to do the same thing. And equality means free to choose to do the things we want to do.


Reference Books:
  1. John Gray "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", HapperCollins Publishers, India (2008)
  2. John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
  3. Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India.

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