They always likes outdoor activities, such as hunting, fishing, racing cars etc. They interested in the news, weather and sports rather than romantic novels and self help books. They always interest in object and things such as cars, faster computer, gadgets and new powerful technology rather than people and feelings. Why? Because these things can help them express the power by creating results and achieving their goals. Achieving goals is important for men because it is the only way his competence and feel good about himself.
He want to handle his problem on his own way. So man rarely talk about his problem. Why? Because his thought "Why i am involve someone, when i can do it by myself?" So he keep his problem to himself. His thought is "talking about the problem means showing your weakness". When he can't find a solution his problem then he want to require help from another person to find the solution. So he find someone he respects and then talking about his problem. It means talking about the problem is invitation for advice. Other men feel honoured by this opportunity and give some advice. This is the way of showing love and trying to help each other in the men world.
A men brain is organised to evolute and understand to evolute and understand things and objects, their relationship to each other in a spatial way, how it all works and solution of the problems. His brain is programmed for "how-do-I-fix-it?" or "How-do-I-fix-the problem?". So John Gray author of "men are from mars, women are from venus" written in his book men are called Mr.Fix.It.
Reference Books:
- John Gray "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus", HapperCollins Publishers, India (2008)
- John Gary "Men, Women and relationship" 2nd edition, Hillsboro OR: Beyond Words (1993)
- Allan and Barbara Pease, "Why men don't listen and women can't read maps" Manjul Publishing House Pvt. Ltd., Bhopal, India.
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